I actually didn't know why she did.
Almost in every single time we spend together, we do crazy things.
That's how best friend usually works.
But this time, I feel like being preached! Hahahaha.
She told me A-Z advice for my confusing love-life stage.
I asked her what the images mean and she said that these will be the answer for my worries.
She knows almost all of my story. We share a lot.
Sometimes there are things that are alike between our story (our personalities, and our interest).
And sometimes there are some "bullshit confessions" other may not willing to listen to, but each of us do, as long as sharing will heal our sorrow. And as best friend, we compromise the "bullshit" (or drama) parts.
And here are the purpose of the images based on her advice onto me:
The first quote image "Out of 6,972,848,504 people, I choose you".
We know that there are a lot of people outside.
We have our own right to choose one out of many numbers to be admired or to be loved.
The one we find (or we think) the right one.
When the time comes, let our feeling takes the lead!
Once you choose him/her, show him/her! Do it before it's too late.
Why? Because it's a kind of 'risk' taking one out of million people around to love to, to share to, and to live with one day.
Show them how dare you take the 'risk' on him/her.
No matter how long have you known him/her, still, you just barely know him/her if compared to a must-live-together range of time, that's why it is called 'risk'.
The risk of not having any other better person to live with.
The risk of giving your best to someone you predict will do the same.
The risk of getting hurt and the risk of spend the rest of your life with.
You may say it's too serious to say "must-to-live-with", but isn't everyone in relationship dreaming of having a serious ending? (no matter how long it may take).
You may find him/her unlike what you've thought before, but is there any body perfect? No one.
You may find him/her less than what you've expected by time goes by, but you've fallen for him/her!
That's a 'risk'.
Having him/her as your honorable risk is not easy, of course.
By telling him/her so, him/her will also feel worthy of being sincerely trusted by you as your honorable risk.
Most importantly, if you don't tell him/her, someday someone will. And you'll regret it!
The second quote is: "I believe that two people are connected at the heart, and it doesn't matter what you do, or who you are or where you live; there are no boundaries or barriers if two people are destined to be together".
The image talks about he power of love.
Love may not be easy, but it will find its way.
Love may not be easy, but the struggle will worth.
The point is, is her/him your true love?
No one knows, only both of you do.
When your heart tells you that him/her is the one, then go for it.
Don't wait for the perfect moment. Take the time and make it perfect.
And whatever boundary follows, take it as the flavor of love and never let go.
And after a long chit chat with her, she gave me this one more quote as the summary to end up our stupid but fun lunch sharing session:
WHAT A WISE DAY OF US, LOL! ;-D
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